Don, Megan, Gail and all of Charlene's family: Don knows a lot of this story, but I wanted Megan and Gail, especially, to know that when I think of Charlene, the first word that comes to mind is loyalty. She and Don were friends with my husband and his first wife. When Pat and I became a couple, Charlene was less than pleased (circumstances that are not warranted discussion here). When Don was helping us move to our home, he privately told me that Charlene said she didn't think she liked me because Pat's first wife was her friend and she didn't feel she could be friends with me. I had to think a moment, but then told Don that if she felt any other way, I wouldn't want her for a friend, that I respected not only her honesty, but her loyalty and the only thing I could do was to try to show her that I could respect her feelings and attitude and hopefully, try to win her over to feel the same way towards me. I think we did become friends, not "call me every day" kind of very close friends, but a friendship which grew out of mutual respect for each other's feelings and the humor with which we both addressed in most situations. She taught me about loyalty and standing up for friends even when it would be easier to follow the crowd and just do nothing. I always loved her musical laugh and thoroughly enjoyed the time we spent together. Having lost touch with Don and Charlene for years, I am overwhelmed with her loss, but I will certainly try to keep more in touch with Don and Megan and through a continuing friendship with them, let my friend know that I am loyal to her memory and respect her love for family and friends. Go rest high on that mountain, Charlene.